It’s funny how something so small can give a whole turn around into someone’s life . It has take me 22 years to realise that one has to watch what they say. You might say something that will destroy someone causing them to be permanently scarred. Scars that not even time can heal. Most importantly one has to think before speaking. You just can’t turn around and say its a joke and expect everything to be alright. Many words I look back on that I may have said either as a joke or pure malice to someone that might have actually scarred them.
It’s sad that I realize this only when I have been hurt but what’s more sad is the damage caused will never be undone. Everyone tells you to forgive and forget until they have something to forgive.I can forgive but I can’t bring myself to forget. It’s part of me now,haunting me for the rest of my life but again such is life. The lesson here is not everything can be taken back.be a builder of spirits not a destroyer.
With love, Nelly
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