Make eye contact with her as this helps build trust. Smile,it will make you appear as a warm and friendly person which in turn be a plus for you.Your body language should be welcoming as well. Do not fold your arms.
You need to remind yourself that you are worthy of her.Its okay to doubt your appearance but you need to remember that cowardice never got anyone anything. Stand tall,believe me many women find confidence more attractive.
How do you do this? you ask her questions, you listen to her, you engage in an active dialogue. Most importantly you listen to her and give her compliments. Nothing is sexier than a man showing interest and actually listening and not just hearing.
4.Look fun to be with
Be it planning an adventurous future activity or a mountain climbing experience or just making funny jokes. Do it. She will love it and in turn have a soft spot for you. Engage her in the activities, try out some of her’s as well.
5. Tell her how different she is
Which lady doesn’t want to stand out from the rest? Not only tell her but also make her feel special. Tell her how comfortable you feel been around her.
6.Tell her about yourself
Do not get me wrong here, do not go telling her the name of your first hamster or the first time you ate pickles. What I mean is tell her something that sets you apart from the rest like a hobby or a talent for example maybe you paint on your free time, maybe you sing or are really good at playing baseball. Set yourself apart from the rest.
7.Talk about your ambitions
I have found that men who actually have goals and ambitions in life attract women better. This is because women look for security and protection. This should however not be the first thing you say as you may come off as too full of yourself and that will automatically be a turn off. Give time for conversation.
With love, Nelly.
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