It’s very easy to distinguish who is your friend and who is not. Simply just cut them off benefits,quit calling them,quit texting for a week or so and just go MIA in life. Then you will see who is really down for you. Don’t get me wrong here,most of those fake friends are actually the ones who text and call you often. Not because they care,not because you mean so much to them,not because they miss you,not because they like you,but, only because they need to keep contact with you so they can continue to reap the benefits. So they will send an occasional hey and I miss you . This people are born for this. They will trick you to feel loved and comfortable in their arms so it gets easier for you to continue giving .But the very moment you decide to withdraw,they run.
That’s when they distant themselves,that’s when they turn against you. Those texts when they seemed too happy and everything you said was funny becomes dull. You text them and they give close ended replies. With all the fake friends in this world I am almost convinced that man is an island . We are born as one ,to experience singular experiences,to die alone. Maybe we aren’t born to be friends.
With love, Nelly
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