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Skinny brides become chubby wives 


It’s been said women gain weight after they get married. I researched why this happens and jotted down few reasons

1. Your priorities change 

The first thing a wife wants to do is feed her family. As a single woman your appearance was your first priority but after you get married you realize you can’t get away with something and fitness and health become a less priority to you .

2. Stress 

Your body is trying to adjust to a new home and a new lifestyle. As a defense mechanism your body changes it’s digestive system which means loss of nutrition which results in loss of energy and cravings at odd hours which leads to weight gain.

3. You eat more 

You have a new family to see and get to know. During this times you eat alot in those dinner parties and lunch with the family . You eat alot due to been anxious at the meetings and this you add on weight

4. Certainty

When you sign the marriage papers,you think marriage is for life and you no longer have to worry about losing that person. So you let go of your health and fitness because you know no matter what that person will be there .

5. Pregnancy happens 

Now you have a new family, going to the gym is no longer an option. You are exhausted with everything. Your sleep pattern is interrupted. You just do not have time for yourself. Then you gain a whopping 10 kilos.

With love,Nelly

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16 replies

  1. Haha, i’m not even married yet and I already consider myself chubby compare to what I was!

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  2. An interesting read, I enjoyed this!💙

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  3. All of these things are true, that’s why it is important for women to make times for themselves while caring for a family.

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  4. hahah….. Well, I have been married twice and after my daughter I went to the gym like a crazy lady, because I had in my mind, if my husband ever steps out on me. I have to still be able to move one looking good… and low and behold the azz did step out…… So I told him to keep on stepping and had someone new int 2 snaps and a shake of my finger. LOL…. It is extremely important for a woman to keep herself up cause one never knows what life will place in front of you. In my second marriage, I had gained weight before I met him and he married me when I was fat, then because I was happy lost 30 lbs. and he cant believe the wife he has now LOLOL…..

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  5. I think I might call myself lucky as it did not happen to me 😀 I have more stress, that’s for sure, I got a few extra kg after pregnancy but then I started going to the gym. I went back to my weight pretty fast and the body has changed so much that actually I think I’ve never in my life been in a better condition than now, being 37 🙂 I think it’s all up to us really.

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  6. Wow interesting read. I am hoping this means that already chubby brides will make skinny wives. LOL. I get what it is referring to though, basically sometimes the wife can quit taking care of herself. I have spent a lot of time during my single life learning about wow interesting read. I am hoping this means that already chubby brides will make skinny wives. LOL. I get what it is referring to though, basically sometimes the wife can quit taking care of herself. I have spent a lot of time during my single life learning about self care and I hope to take that over to my married life one day. I would also love to lose a ton before I am married. Can’t gain anymore. LOL

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  7. Lol interesting read but I’m hoping to beat the stereotype!

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  8. Who can argue with the truth!? These explanations hit the nail on the head.

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