1. You walk on eggshells
This type of person will make you feel like you need to be careful about everything, how you talk to them or act around them. You will be constantly on eggshells trying not to say something that will upset them.
2. They demean you
They often will put you down as a means of building themselves up. You will be belittled and start questioning your worth. This is not healthy at all.
3. Your life is their playground
Your interests, your hobbies, your job becomes theirs. They want to be in control of who you associate with, how you associate with whoever you do. You will basically have no privacy of your own.
4. You are never going to be happy
Noone wants to feel like they are constantly under pressure all the time. You will start prioritizing their happiness and yours will come second. Again, you can never please this type of person.
5. Your feelings will not matter
How you feel is not important to them. They see the need to control your emotions too. They will get angry at you for something they did and blame you for their actions. They will disrespect your feelings and disregard you in an effort to always be right. You might hand them evidence on a golden platter but they will still fail to see it. They have no problem losing important relationships as long as they look like they are right.
With love, Nelly
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