STOP BURDENING YOUR FRIENDS WITH YOUR PROBLEM
We all have that one friend who seems to be going through the hardest, most painful moments in life. Nothing good ever comes from their mouths. We are all a little guilty of this too at some point. Just because you don’t go through the hell that friend goes through doesn’t mean they are less human than you but again we are still human we get tired.
Tired of listening to woes and constantly worrying for them. I know some of you will come at me with the oh a good friend this and a good friend that. But between me and you, we know this can be tiring. I don’t think it’s fair for anyone to burden their friends with their problems because at the end of the day we all have problems and adding more into my pot will not make things easier for me, it makes them worse . Not to say that we should only expect to hear good things and paint skies with rainbows for others, what I mean is limit what you tell people, ask yourself. Is whatever am about to tell her going to make her worried or will it have a good impact(will she help solve it?), is this a big problem that I cannot handle with out her help or do I just want to let it out?
My point is Noone wants to constantly worry about things they are not in a position to help. Limit your problem sharing.
With love, Nelly
Categories: SELF CARE